Put Away The Stroller

My girls in our jogging stroller last year.

My girls in our jogging stroller last year.

First off, I would like to state that I don’t have anything against strollers. There are plenty of situations where I think a stroller would be a lifesaver. If you’re a car-free family that walks miles every day, I’m sure it would be great to have. Or maybe if you have kids close enough together that the first one isn’t big enough to walk yet and you already have one on you. Or along that train of thought, some medical conditions don’t allow for babywearing, which under normal conditions I consider to be a far superior way of carrying a small baby. There’s a whole host of reasons someone might regularly use a stroller and I have no problem with 99% of them.

There’s one situation that I keep seeing, even more so now that the weather is getting nice. One situation that makes me want to pull out my hair in frustration. It’s the big kid who is in the stroller for short walks.

I’m talking 3 and 4 year olds (I’ve even seen older kids) in strollers for walks that are a mile or less. Walking to the park, going to pick up siblings from school, walks around the block, etc. I’m going to go ahead and make the assumption that the majority of these kids have no physical reason that they cannot walk.

So why aren’t they walking?

Is it because they complain? Is it because they expect to be carried halfway there? Is it because they are crazy and try to run in the road? I don’t know, but I do empathize. I’ve been there multiple times.

But just because it’s hard on our kids or annoying for us, should we give up and push big kids around in strollers all the time? What about exercise? What about learning rules of the road like holding hands? What are we setting them up for later in childhood?

So I urge you to put away that stroller. Start off small and make them walk around the block. Go bigger and walk to your library or park. You can do it, and they’ll be better for it.

My Continuous Brew Kombucha

Have you heard of this kombucha stuff yet? It’s pretty awesome stuff. (And if you’re more interested in my method of brewing it rather than all of the information about it, skip down to the bottom where there are lots of pictures.) One day probably around a year and a half ago when we were picking up eggs from my mom’s friend, she offered us some. I hadn’t ever heard of it, but I thought it tasted pretty alright mixed with juice (that’s how she drinks it). She said that if I ever wanted a SCOBY (symbiotic colony of bacteria and yeast) that she would be happy to give me one, so when I got home I started to research it. Then I immediately asked her for one.

You see, kombucha is a probiotic drink. You know, those probiotic pills that cost an arm and a leg and are all the rage? Well you can make that stuff right at home! Probiotics have many health benefits and I’m sure that we’re only at the tip of the iceberg when it comes to knowing all the wonderful things that probiotics do for our bodies. What are probiotics, you say? Beneficial bacteria. No, that’s not an oxymoron. Did you know you actually have more bacterial cells in your body than you have human cells? And there are a whole host of processes that simply cannot work in your body without these bacteria (I loved my physiology class last semester, in case you couldn’t tell). Bacteria is often associated with being bad, but it’s really not! Bacteria is so good and, as proven by this drink, pretty yummy!

Anyway, back to kombucha.

I started making it after getting my first SCOBY/mother/mushroom (yeah there are a lot of names for that thing) from my friend. Here’s a picture of mine:

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I think it looks kind of like brains. And to be fair, this is not the same one I got from my mom’s friend. My mom also got one at the same time and, given my busy school year, my kombucha fell to the wayside and my mother was probably still okay, but maybe a tad questionable, so I chucked her. When I started back up again a few months ago, I got a new one from my mom. The mother may look a tad intimidating (it was for me and my friends have also said it was for them), she’s not difficult at all to take care of. Just feed her and she’ll be a happy camper.

When I first started doing kombucha, I did the traditional brewing method. The idea is that you put the mother with some tea and sugar and tuck it away for a week, then when it’s done fermenting, you take the mother out to start a new one (along with some tea from the last batch, at least 1/2 a cup) and you drink what’s left while waiting for the next one to ferment. At this point, you can bottle it (that’s what makes it fizzy like soda) and put it in the fridge. For me, I usually just left it on the counter. My problem is that I would have issues with having too much (and it will continue to ferment, though at a slower rate without the mother present and at an even slower rate if you put it in the fridge) and it would get all vinegary or I’d have too little and find myself waiting until the next batch was done. Plus my friend showed me this post about the benefits of continuous brewing. You’re less likely to contaminate batches (which is still really unlikely) because you’re not constantly moving the mother back and forth. I find it to be much lower maintenance and, huge benefit for me, it never gets to that super tart stage where I’m choking it down. So, while I find that post I just linked to be super helpful, I think that the internet is in need of a very simple and straight-forward method of continuous brewing. Since I’m all about the simple and straight-forward, that’s what I present to you today.

The Lactating Girl Method for Continuous Brew Kombucha

Step 1- Get a mother! Chances are, you can find someone near you with a mother to spare. These things replicate every time you do a batch (though I think it goes a tad more slowly with continuous brewing, from my experience), so if you never chop any off you’ll end up with a huge mother pretty quickly. Ask around, and if you can’t find one, you can buy them online. And keep that juice that comes with her, because it’s important to keep some of the last batch in every new batch to help keep away things like mold.

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Step 2- Make some sweet tea. Above is the tea I use, but whenever I run out (this box is taking forever to get through!), I plan on looking for organic. It’s pretty easy to find a tea that will work and combinations are good too. I just do one type at the moment because I’m lazy. I may look into adding some green tea into the mix to lower the caffeine content (which is higher in continuous brew because you always have a mixture of new tea and old tea) since I give it to my kids. At this point though, they don’t drink enough and I don’t give it to them late at night or anything, so I’m not horribly concerned with the small amount they get.

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Anyway, back to making the tea. It’s important to leave the water for the tea out for at least 12 hours on your counter before making the tea so the chlorine can evaporate off (chlorine will kill your mother. Am I the only one who finds that phrase hilarious?). In case you don’t already make sweet tea, the ratio I use is 5 bags of tea to one cup of sugar (I use raw cane sugar, but white will do too. Don’t use honey!) to about 3 quarts of water give or take (I wish I could go back in time five years and tell myself I’d become one of those people who couldn’t be bothered to take measurements. I think it would have given me a heart attack. Well, maybe I don’t want to go back after all). Just heat the water to a boil, seep the tea bags for a bit, take out the tea bags, add the sugar and stir until dissolved. Put it in the fridge to cool to at least room temperature before adding it to the kombucha or you’ll kill your mother (Ha! I’m so immature). Maybe drink some too while you’re at it, because sweet tea is tasty.

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Step 3- Add tea to the mother. You need a large jar that’s glass. It can have absolutely no metal touching the tea, because it will corrode. Avoid plastic touching the tea because it can leech chemicals, but the little spigot I have on mine has some plastic on the inside and I don’t worry about it. You’ll want the top to be breathable, but not allow flies in. As you can see, I just have a little square of fabric held on by a rubber band on top. It works great. Pour that cooled tea onto the mother and let it sit, anywhere from a few days to a week, until it stops tasting like tea and tastes more like a bit fizzy apple cider-ish drink. Trust me, you’ll know the change. You’ll also probably want to make another batch of tea that you can just store in your fridge (and pour straight from the fridge into the kombucha) as you used that first one up.

Step 4- Add more tea as needed. This is where this method differs from a regular brewing method. Rather than drinking it down and starting a new batch, you’re adding tea to this same batch as you go. I try to add tea every time I take any out (as I generally take out quite a bit), but I don’t always get to it. I add it at least by the time that the liquid is down to 2/3 of the jar because I don’t want to sit through the fermenting stage again. By adding tea continuously, you get a tangy, but still sweet flavor. I quite enjoy it. I do prefer to add the extra tea after getting mine out though, as the fresh tea mixed makes it a bit too sweet to work with the tangy in my opinion. Having it sit in there for a day though changes it enough that it’s still sweet, but not so sweet.

So there’s my super simple method of continuous brew kombucha. Really, it’s ridiculous easy. And tasty. And good for you. It’s like the trifecta of beverages. Go try it. Mmm.

A quite side note: first off, I’m not a doctor. I’m not any sort of fancy health professional that should be advising you about drinking certain beverages for your health. I’m sure you already knew this though, so I’m not too worried. Ya’ll are smart peoples. Main note though, if you’re breastfeeding or pregnant, start small on the kombucha and work your way up. Actually, it’s a good idea for anyone. This stuff detoxes you, which means not only will toxins go out of your body (and potentially to the things you feed with your body), but also can give you nasty side effects like headaches and bloating. Not a big deal, but also best if you can avoid it. I started off small and worked up (starting around a shot a day and slowly increasing for a week or so until I was at the glass I normally drink) both when I started drinking it at first and when I started drinking it again and I had zero issues. Have fun! 

Deliciously Easy Crock Pot Chili

Welcome to the April 2013 Carnival of Natural Parenting: Family Recipes

This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by Code Name: Mama and Hobo Mama. This month our participants are sharing their recipes, their stories, their pictures, and their memories.

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My mom makes some pretty delicious chili. I remember being a kid and thinking it was way too spicy, but either she’s changed it since then or my kids are not wimps like I was because they gobble it up. So about a year ago, I asked her for her recipe. Since then, I’ve modified it a bit, but overall it’s the same. I literally made this chili about 7 times over the course of three months this winter and I kept expecting someone to get sick of it, anyone. I kept expecting to have leftovers that went past their “best buy” date and needed to be frozen or trashed. Neither of these things happened. Actually, no matter how many times I made it, the leftovers were always gone within 3 days.

Meet the players:

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You’ll need:

1 lb ground beef
1 can pinto beans
1 can kidney beans
1 can tomato sauce
1/2 onion, chopped
1 can diced tomatoes
water
1/2 a recipe of chili mix (recipe to follow)

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Brown the beef in a skillet. And while it’s browning…

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coarsely chop the onion. If you don’t like these delicious little beasts, you can chop them more finely. I don’t suggest leaving them out though.

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Once the beef is brown, add the onions. Cook until they’re mostly translucent. While they’re doing that, make your chili mix.

You’ll need:

1/4 cup flour
4 tsp chili powder
1 Tbsp crushed red pepper (I usually end up with somewhere around 1 tsp because I’m laaazy about turning the pepper mill over and over)
1 tsp onion powder
1 tsp garlic powder
1 Tbsp sugar
2 tsp cumin
2 tsp parsley
2 tsp salt
1 tsp dried basil
1/4 tsp pepper

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Get a small mason jar for the chili mix. Add the flour.

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Add all the other stuffs. I’ll save you the individual pictures I took after adding each thing. Now put that lid on and shake it!

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It’ll look like this when you’re done.

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By this point, your onions should look partially translucent (fancy word for clear). Go ahead and dump all of that over to the crock pot.

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Open up all those cans and dump them in.

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Take one of those cans and fill it up with water (I usually use the tomato sauce, because then you can get all of that tomato-y goodness out). Dump that in too.

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If you’re feeling daring, add a last minute bit of brown sugar. Maybe not quite as much as I did though, because this chili ended up sweet.

Give it a good stir and let it cook on low for at least four hours, but you could go a lot longer than that and I usually do.

Variations:

Make it vegetarian by omitting the meat and adding another type of bean or a meat substitute.

If you like sausage, feel free to add some. The original recipe from my mother had sausage, I believe 1/2 lb, but we’re not huge on it so I leave it out.

For chunkier chili, try stew meat instead of ground beef. Just brown the outsides of the stew meat before throwing it in the keep the juices in. The longer the better on cooking this one.

If you’re in a hurry, you can do this on the stovetop instead. Simmer it for at least 30 minutes, preferably longer.

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Carnival of Natural Parenting -- Hobo Mama and Code Name: MamaVisit Code Name: Mama and Hobo Mama to find out how you can participate in the next Carnival of Natural Parenting!

Please take time to read the submissions by the other carnival participants:

  • German Red Cabbage: A Family Tradition — At Living Peacefully with Children, Mandy shares her favorite dish and a part of her family’s history.
  • Grandma Wicken’s Sugar Cookies — Jana Falls at Jananas talks about how special her Grandma’s sugar cookies made her feel.
  • Recipe: Seed and Bean Burgers — ANonyMous at Radical Ramblings shares one of her favourite frugal recipes that is also super-healthy and totally delicious.
  • PULLING Dinner Together For the Kids – Crockpot Pulled Pork — Lisa at The Squishable Baby PULLS dinner together for the kids.
  • The Best Banana Muffin Recipe (Gluten Free & Vegan) — Dionna of Code Name: Mama’s adventures in gluten free baking have not been 100% successful. But today she is guest posting at Fine and Fair to share a banana muffin recipe that will knock your socks off!
  • The Pierogie Mama Whips Up Strawberry Pierogies! — Bianca at The Pierogie Mama shares her family’s recipe for strawberry pierogies…a sweet, summery version of the Polish dumplings that she affectionately named her daughter after.
  • Mom’s Cookbook — Tree at Mom Grooves digs into the big book her mom created for her six daughters and shares a favorite family recipe.
  • Crispy Duck Confit — Jennifer at Hybrid Rasta Mama takes the liberty of starting a family recipe tradition with this super simple, totally delicious crispy duck confit.
  • Stovetop BBQ Chicken — Amy at Me, Mothering, and Making it All Work shares a yummy BBQ chicken recipe that you can make on the stovetop in less than 25 minutes, fridge to table!
  • Twice-Baked Sweet Potato Casserole w/Bacon — Martine at Whey Beyond the Naked Truth shares a naked food twist on an old family favorite!
  • Strawberry Panna Cotta — KerryAnn at CookingTF.com shows you her favorite dessert, a quick and easy Strawberry Panna Cotta that she enjoys so much, she had it instead of a birthday cake this year.
  • Special crepes for a special day — Mikko at Hobo Mama is learning to cook his grandma’s signature holiday meal alongside his dad.
  • Three Favorite Family Recipes: To Eat, To Wash, To Play — Kristin at Intrepid Murmurings is back with three family favorites: gluten-free vanilla orange sugar cookies, DIY powdered laundry detergent, and something fun for the kids: homemade “Flubber”!
  • Black Bean Soup Forever — Mercedes at Project Procrastinot shares a soup recipe that’s been around forever.
  • Do you want to know a secret? — SRB at Little Chicken Nuggets lets go of her mac and cheese recipe, a comfort food favourite for friends and family for years.
  • Creating Our Own Family Recipes — Emily at S.A.H.M. i AM shares how she’s trying to create meals that her girls will want to pass down to their own children some day.
  • Vranameer Chicken: A Family Recipe — Luschka at Diary of a First Child shares a recipe that reminds her of childhood and more specifically, of her mother. It’s a South African take on sweet and sour chicken and what it lacks in healthy it makes up for in tantalising to the taste buds.
  • One Recipe, Three Uses: Dishwasher Liquid Detergent, Dish Soap, and Hand Soap — If you love saving money and time, you’ll love this green recipe from Jennifer at Hybrid Rasta Mama, guest posting at Natural Parents Network.
  • Our Family’s Favorite Pies — Abbie at Farmer’s Daughter shares recipes and tutorials for the quintessential American dessert.
  • Deliciously Easy Crock Pot ChiliLactating Girl shares her crock pot chili that is not only quick and easy, but awesome.
  • All-Purpose Crock Pot PorkCrunchy Con Mommy‘s simple “recipe” for cooking perfect pork in the crock pot is for whatever mood her family is in!
  • Family Rules: A Recipe for Harmony — Cooped-up kids + winter weather + frazzled parents can all blend together into a recipe for disaster. Dionna at Code Name: Mama shares what brought back the peace in her house.
  • Favorite Healthy Family Recipes — Deb Chitwood at Living Montessori Now shares her family’s healthy eating experiences along with links to free printable vegetarian recipes that her family has created with love.
  • Grandma’s Banana Bread — Megan at The Boho Mama has early and fond memories of her grandma’s banana bread. It’s love in a loaf!
  • Family Comfort Food — Jorje of Momma Jorje shares a recipe handed down that moms have made for their kids, for regular meals as well as to comfort.

Sunday Surf: School, School, and More School

Welcome to the Sunday Surf.

I’ve been absent around here for the last week because of school. Schooooool. I’m feeling so done, but I really am almost done, so I’m forcing myself to chug along and get ahead so I can be done faster. I just keep reminding myself that I’ll be free a month from now, at least for a few months. Then it’s more schooool. Until then, here’s a cute photo of the girls playing outside in the glorious sun. Oh, and Happy Easter to those of you who celebrate it! Yay for eggs!

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First off, here’s a great post published just today from Hobo Mama (on her Sunday Surf, actually) on the importance of breastfeeding and not guilting moms who nurse and don’t have a perfect diet. I was so busy with school that I didn’t even know about the Breastfeeding Support Blog Party, but I’m very happy to read all of the posts from it. Breastmilk is still superior, no matter what mom’s diet is. I’ll share more on that another day.

Also from Hobo Mama is A Trick to Unlatch a Sleeping Nursling. Her interesting idea is that, rather than relatching baby to the same side if they start rooting when you unlatch, that you switch sides. Often when I put Twig down it takes multiple times of relatching her on the same side to get her to fall asleep. I’m definitely going to try this trick.

Have you gotten into this “in a mug” trend going on? Well I hadn’t tried any of them out until just recently, and I must say that this one is delicious. Peach cobbler in a mug! I wasn’t sure about the whole thing because it makes dessert so readily accessible (yeah, like I need that), but it also means that it’s just one serving. No more going back for another helping, unless I want to go to all of the work of mixing the ingredients again! And no more eating a whole pan of peach cobbler over a few days!

Peanut and I did this awesome Egg Geodes Experiment this week in celebration of Easter. Peanut loved adding the different things to the different cups (we did sugar, rock salt, sea salt, baking soda, and honey). We’re still waiting for it to finish evaporating (We originally put it in a room where the cats wouldn’t get it, but since the door is shut the room gets cold. We’ve since moved it outside.), but Peanut is loving checking on it every day and looking at how they’re changing.

Have you ever made granola? Well, I suppose I’m truly “crunchy” now that I have! This vanilla granola is to die for, seriously. We made a half batch (because we didn’t have enough oatmeal, we go through that stuff like crazy!) and finished it in just a few days. I’m planning on making more today. So much cheaper and even more delicious than store-bought!

Given my current lack of time and effort to do my hair (well, to be honest, that’s all the time), I’ve been really loving buns lately. These fun bun alternatives are mostly easy and great for getting my hair out of the way for the day. I’m trying to put more effort into my appearance every day because it helps me feel confident and happy, so it’s great to have some quick and easy ways to do my hair that make me feel great. I especially love the Simple Gibson Tuck and Twisted Sister.

Surf with us:

Sunday Surf with Authentic Parenting and Hobo MamaWe love following along with fellow Sunday Surfers. If you have your own post of reading links to share, please link up your post on Hobo Mama or onAuthentic Parenting. The linky will go live every Sunday, and you can link up any day that week. You only need to add your post to one of the sites, and the linky will automatically show up on both sites.

You can get the Sunday Surf button by Jenna Designs and some code to add to your post from my Sunday Surf page.

Check out previous editions for good reading, and you can find more shared items during the week at my Tumblr blog, Hobo Mama’s Shared Items.

Knock, Knock?

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Taking a break from running in circles to put another orange in her mouth.

Who’s there? 
Banana.
Banana who?
Knock, knock?
Who’s there? 
Banana.
Banana who?
Knock, knock?
Who’s there? 
Banana.
Banana who?
Knock, knock?
Orange.
Orange who?
Orange you glad I didn’t say banana?

Alright, in all seriousness, I’m talking about oranges today. You know, that delicious fruit that’s cheap this time of year? Yeah, it’s the same one that’s generally a super mess, especially with kids. All the peeling, then the chunks that come apart perfectly adult sized–or perfectly sized for children squirting juice everywhere. Well, I’ve come up with a not-so-messy probably not-at-all-creative-but-I-feel-unique way to give oranges to little ones. I’m sure I’m the 50 billionth mom to come up with this idea, but when I did it felt like I had an epiphany, so I want to give you an epiphany too! And there are pictures!

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First, cut off the ends of the orange (not entirely necessary, but it makes things easier, especially if there’s a bunch of rind on the end or it’s misshaped). Then cut it into quarters. It’s missing a quarter because my children were screaming at me Moar Oranges!!! so I had to cut them up some real quick before I could take my pictures.

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Take each quarter and cut it in half.

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Now this is where the oranges turn from adult-sized to child-sized. Cut lines down the orange so that each section is in quarters. Make sure you get down into the rind slightly, but not so far that you actually cut through it.

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This is what it should look like post cutting.

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Now use your thumb to push the pieces out of the orange. This works particularly well if you have long-ish nails.

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Now give them to your children to devour! If your kids are anything like mine, they’ll gobble them up as fast as you can cut them. Twig makes the most funny faces when she’s eating oranges, but then begs for more. Peanut loves them too. And they’re not perfectly mess-free, but much better than when my children needed baths after eating oranges! Try it out sometime!

SmartKlean Review and Giveaway Ends 2.27

SKBALL-HPToday I have for you all another update on our diaper routine. Well, it’s actually for all of our laundry. A couple of months ago, I was sent a SmartKlean laundry ball and Stain Remover to review for this blog. Well, actually I contacted them. I don’t recall how I came across their site, but when I started to read I got excited really quick. I mean, who doesn’t love the idea of spending $45 for a whole year (365 washes) of laundry? Then make it gentle to the skin (my husband has eczema, so detergents easily irritate him), eco-friendly (no traces of soap in the water and you can even cut out the rinse on your laundry and save water), and cloth diaper safe! Yeah, I’m in!

I was so excited about it that I emailed them right away asking if they’d like me to review it for my blog. Diana got back to me ASAP and sent out not only the laundry ball, but stain remover too. I forced myself to use up the last of the Country Save before I made the switch because I didn’t want to waste and then I started using the ball.

I am a laundry ball convert.

My clothes are just as fresh, if not more-so  than they were with regular detergent. They don’t smell like anything (which is exactly what I want! I hate detergents that make my clothes smell “fresh”!) and I honestly think I have less stains, even without getting the stain remover involved. It’s super nice to just start the laundry and not worry about how much detergent has to go in. The ball just hangs out in our washer (much like our wool dryer balls) unless I take it out to do a pre-rinse on the cloth diapers (still best for stains, I’d say). I’ve been using the ball for over two months now and my clothes are still just as clean as they were day one, even with our hard water.

SmartKlean-Stain-Remover1Next I tried out the stain remover. It’s just a block of waxy substance that you rub on the stain. Super easy! The first stain I tried it on I didn’t have much luck with. It’s a shirt that I love dearly, but seems to be stain-prone. The day after buying it, I had a bunch of bacon grease splash up onto it! I know, I know, I shouldn’t have been wearing a new shirt and cooking bacon. Hindsight is 20-20, you know. I handed it over to my mother-in-law and she worked her magic on it and got the bacon grease out. Now though, it had a little brown mark of unknown origins. The stain had been sitting for a few months, so I’m not surprised that I didn’t have any luck.

DiapersThe second time I tried out the stain remover on some cloth diapers I was trying to sell. It specifically says cloth diaper safe, just like the laundry ball! Yay! So these prefolds were pretty stained. I hadn’t done anything to try to get the stains out before because, to be honest, I don’t care about stains on my baby’s diapers. I mean, they’re for poop! Geeze! But generally when selling diapers, they do better if they have less stains.

I started off my stain removal process with some Rockin’ Green I had from the Great Cloth Diaper Change. I soaked the diapers for a few hours with that on hot. Then after running the rest of the cycle to drain and then rinse them, I rubbed the SmartKlean stain remover all over the stained parts. The transformation was astounding! They went from being so stained that it was impossible not to see it to having so little stains that the worst of them had it hardly show up on camera! Many of the diapers had no stains at all after this too. I’ll definitely be trying this again the next time I need to sell diapers. Maybe I’ll even do it to my current ones now just to make them nice and pretty again! I’ll be interested to see how it works on the coffee stain Twig decided to create (don’t worry, no babies were burned in the making of this blog post!).

SmartKlean does everything its competitors do, often better, and it’s at a savings to you and the environment. Sure, $45 for laundry detergent seems like a lot to drop at once, but it’s totally worth it. I know that I’ll be purchasing more in the future, just not for a whole year!

You want one too, you say? Well today is your lucky day! SmartKlean is giving away a free laundry ball and stain remover to one lucky reader! Leave one comment per entry. Don’t forget to get in those extra comments for extra entries!

Mandatory First Entry: Leave a comment estimating how much you spend in a year on laundry detergent. For example, I used to buy Country Save which was slightly over $20 per box and probably used a box of it every two months, so my comment would be “$120 per year!” Make sure you use an email you’d like to be contacted at in case you win!

1 entry: follow me on Twitter. If you already follow, you still get an entry!

1 entry: Tweet about this giveaway (leave a link to the tweet in the comment). You can tweet about this giveaway once every day for an entry. That’s up to 15 entries just from tweeting!

2 entries (make 2 separate comments): follow this blog by email (or other following mechanism of your choosing).  If you already follow, you still get an entry!

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1 entry: Write a post on your Facebook page about this giveaway! Make sure you link to The Adventures of Lactating Girl on Facebook in the post and leave a comment here each time you do it. You can do it once per day! That’s up to 15 entries!

3 entries: blog about this contest (leave a link the comment). Once per giveaway.

The winner will be chosen on Wednesday, February 27th at 5PM Mountain Standard Time by random. The winner will be emailed and must respond to the email within 48 hours or a new winner will be chosen. Good luck everyone!

Winner is Pierogie Mama with comment #2 on the random number generator!

Alternative Taco Salad

As I mentioned in my new years un-resolutions, I’m trying to eat more leafy greens. I think that when you’re trying something new, it’s best to start simple, which is why I created this salad. Well, that and the fact that I’ve been obsessed with Cafe Rio lately and I can’t justify going there as often as I’d like.

I love taco salad, but I wanted to put more emphasis on the greens. So here’s an extra emphasis on the green (full disclosure, I actually added another few leaves of lettuce after this picture was taken because I got to the end of the lettuce long before the end of the everything else) in this salad. Not that there’s anything wrong with the delicious taco salad tortilla bowl, but it’s not super quick and easy and healthy.

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So, here’s the recipe. It’s really more of using what I have and what sounds good, so it’s not a very traditional recipe. I’m not going to give you amounts, because it’s largely up to taste!

First, heat the beans (I’ve been liking pinto, but black are also very good in this). While they’re heating, rip up some lettuce (I like romaine because iceburg is more like green sugar nutritionally). Shred some cheese on top (I usually use cheddar). Add some other taco-friendly mix-ins, such as olives or tomatoes. Crumple some tortilla chips on top. Add a big glob of sour cream and another of salsa and mix around to coat. Yum!

What are your favorite leafy green recipes? 

Turn That Frown Upsidedown

DSC_0144We all have bad days and it’s easy to let them get away from you. A recent day for us went like this: the girls aren’t feeling well, Twig didn’t sleep well that night, we had to rush to Mema’s to drop them off so I could go to a meeting that no one showed up to, the weather was bad, we were late to preschool, I was late picking Peanut up from preschool, the girls were crabby on the way home, the girls continued to be crabby when we got home. I found myself dwelling in all of the things that were going wrong that day, even though in retrospect it really wasn’t that bad.

It’s easy to get caught up in the “poor me” spiral and it’s hard to get out of once you’re there. Life with little ones can be hard and it gets even more so when mama is in a bad mood. Frequently, mama’s bad mood causes the kids to get an attitude too! Here I’m providing some time-proven tricks to get out of your funk so you and your kiddos can have a better day.

1. Get a hug. Hugging has some real benefits. I’m sure you can tell too because when you get a good hug from someone you love, it just makes you feel better. Even for me, a very non-touchy person, a hug from the right person just makes me feel better. There’s a reason behind this–oxytocin. Hugging releases the same love hormone as any other love act, including breastfeeding. So if you’re a nursing mom, take a little breastfeeding break! Especially if you have a toddler, it’s nice to get them to sit still for a minute so you can relax.

2. Make sure all your needs are met. Are you hungry? Are you tired? Are you cold? It seems silly to even check these things, but it’s easy to forget that you need to eat when you’re watching kids. There have been times when I can’t figure out what’s wrong with my crabby child and it turns out that I’ve totally missed naptime. Even something as simple as not enough clothes (or too many when it’s warm) can turn what would be a happy child into a mess.

3. Take a shower. Along the same lines, go take a shower. I know I feel better when I’m clean, and truth be told, it to doesn’t happen every day. I commend the stay at home moms who are able to figure in a daily shower. As I said, life with little ones is hard. Bonus points for taking the kids in with you.

4. Put the kids in water. Whether it be that shower mentioned above or a bath or going swimming. I read some advice once that if your kids are crabby, put them in water. I’ve been trying to follow it since and it really works! Two grumpy girls go in the tub and immediately their moods brighten. Try it sometime.

5. Make your frustration into a game. Peanut actually showed me this one by accident. One day she was really fighting getting into her pajamas and she started pretending she was asleep, so I started to ask her “Can the sleeping girl put her leg in? Can she open her mouth and get her teeth brushed?” and so on. Instead of being mad, we turned the situation around and made it into a game. This can work with so many frustrations. Not eating enough vegetables? Make it a race of who can eat theirs first. Running through the store? Play red light, green light. The list goes on! If you can stop and remember to parent playfully, life will be easier.

6. Start a random game. Along a similar line, just drop whatever you’re doing and play a game. Don’t ask if they want to play first, especially if the child is crabby, because they might say no just out of being a grump. Instead, just start playing. In the middle of an argument, start touching the top of everyone’s head and saying “duck” a couple of times, then do a “goose” and run for it! While I was writing this, my crabby 1 year old came up to me crying, so I hid our eyes and started to count to 10, since hide-and-go-seek is one of our favorite games, my almost 4 year old knew the drill and ran off to hide. They continued playing for a minute and now they’re happily playing with toys downstairs.

7. Make some music. Whether it be putting some music on (Spotify is lovely for this), singing, or playing an instrument. Just start music and let your kids chime in. It’s amazing how much of an effect music has one everyone in my house. If I plug the computer into the speakers in the kitchen and turn on Gangnam Style, it can turn any fit into fun instantly. 

8. Put on some music and clean. Often having a messy house is enough to get me in a foul mood. And just telling my kids to clean can be enough to put them in a foul mood! Instead, we do one song clean alongs. I grab the music and we start the song and clean as much as we can in one room before that song is over. I read about doing this somewhere and I can’t remember where it came from, so sorry I can’t give someone credit. A room will never be perfectly clean with one song, but a bunch of toys can be picked up and I can be a lot less frustrated.

9. Go outside. This is a hard one in our area this time of year because it’s so cold and snowy, but if you can get yourself bundled and outside, you’ll at least get relief as long as you can stand the cold. When it’s warm out, we love to run around the backyard and have a ball. Simply the sun hitting your face can change the tune of your day. Man, I can’t wait for summer.

10. Go for a drive. If all else fails, take the kids for a drive in the car. It can be difficult trying to make it out of the house with small children, but it’s not quite so stressful if you don’t actually leave the car. Go hit up a drive through for a treat, go to a park, or even just drive around for the sake of driving. Sure, it’s not great for the environment or your wallet if you do this too much, but everything in moderation. The change of scenery and the fact that your children are strapped down can certainly help a bad mood.

I hope this list helps some of you out there struggling with a foul mood and small children. It’s amazing how simple little things can change a frown upside down.

What are your special tricks for getting in a better mood when you’re grumpy? How about getting your children in a better mood when they’re the grumps?

How Attachment Parenting Will Help You in a Zombie Apocalypse

Happy Halloween! 

Are you ready for a zombie apocalypse? You might be more than you realize! On this All Hallows Eve, I bring to you a list of five ways attachment parenting will help you in the case of a mass epidemic of zombieism.

Breastfeeding

It’s pretty much a given that in a zombie apocalypse, food will be scarce. How fast do you think you can run from zombies while carrying 10 cans of formula? Not to mention all the feeding possibilities! Run out of food? Load the family up on breast milk! No society to worry about disapproving. They’re all zombies now!

Babywearing

Speaking of running from zombies, carrying a baby makes running extra tough! Strap that baby on and you’re good to duck and maneuver with relative ease! Bonus points for learning to wrap because you’ll have the ability to turn any long piece of fabric into a carrier. More bonus points for being able to wear two at once and help the toddler escape demise too.

Elimination Communication

Do you think that you’ll be able to run to Costco for a big box of diapers when you’re fighting off a hoard of sub-humans? Washing cloth diapers is probably out of the mix too, but elimination communication isn’t! Watch for those cues as you’re going about your s scavaging for food and shelter and you’ll be set. Just make sure to keep that potty place far enough away as to not attract the brain eaters.

Co-sleeping and Parenting to Sleep

Do you think you’ll be able to put your babe in a separate room when you’re not sure if you’ll be attacked in the night? Nope, keep that baby tucked in right by you safe and sound. Not to mention that crying it out would be a baring “Hey! We’re hiding here! Come eat our brains!” ‘Nuff said.

Gentle Discipline

When surviving through the end of humanity, you want your kids on your side. By responding to them with love and respect, you’re giving yourself one more ally against the drones. By beating them into submission, you’re creating a child who’s going to push you off the ledge of the building into the crowd of zombies to be torn to bits.

Good luck surviving against the living dead!

Apple Cinnamon Oatmeal

Peanut is a cereal freak. I don’t blame her because that stuff is delicious, but it’s been rubbing me the wrong way since she started eating it. You see, no matter what the claims are for fortified with vitamins and blah blah blah, cereal isn’t good for you. It’s horribly processed, even the no color less sugar kinds have too much sugar, and not to mention it’s expensive.

So over the past few months, we’ve been making a transition away from cereal. By a transition, I mostly mean that I stopped buying it.* When it’s in the house Peanut asks for it morning, noon, and night until it’s gone. She still only gets it for breakfast, but she loves it so much that she seriously wants it every meal. She would even have fits that she couldn’t have cereal for dinner. Honestly, I feel weary of anything that she wants that intensely. Can it possibly be good for her if it tastes that good? Even if it is good for her and tastes that good, I don’t want my child to have that kind of relationship with food. Food is good and delicious, but worth having a fit over? I think not.

Anyway, but to the cereal.

So we stopped buying it. I started cooking breakfast every morning and it hasn’t been that difficult. The problem is I can only have pancakes or egg sandwiches so many times. I was still craving a cold breakfast. It’s not cold, but making oatmeal is partially filled that void. Oatmeal is great because I can add anything I want to it to make it delicious and nutritious (you see what I did there?!). It’s taken some time to wean the sugar out of our oatmeal because Peanut’s oatmeal in the past has been those packets of sugar that she’s had at her grandma’s house. I bought some for here because she loved them so much and WOW I was surprised at how sugary they are. I couldn’t even eat mine. Anyway, we started off simple with butter and brown sugar, but since have branched into adding fruits and nuts and other deliciousness.

In my experimentation I came up with this delicious recipe and wanted to share it. It’s awesomely delicious, sugar-free, and good for you! Yay!

Apple Cinnamon Oatmeal

Rolled oats, enough for 2 servings
Water
1 Gala, Honeycrisp, or other sweetish apple
Cinnamon
Butter

Boil amount water as directed by the oats package. While it’s boiling, core the apple and cut it into big-ish chunks (I generally quarter it, quarter the quarts, and then slice up those in the other direction half a dozen or so times). Once you have the water at a rolling boil, add the apples, then the oats. Reduce heat to medium and stir it around for a few minutes, making sure to get all the oats wet. Remove from heat and put lid on, let it sit for about 5 minutes. Add a tablespoon or two of butter and a tablespoon or two of cinnamon (I eyeball just about everything when cooking, so I’m not 100% sure on those measurements).

I love this recipe because the apples are sweet enough that it doesn’t need sugar at all. The girls love it (Twig especially loves picking out the cinnamony apples) and even my husband likes it. This recipe gives plenty for our little family of four and some more left over, which can be re-heated on the stove or even eaten cold.

Happy cooking!

* I will admit that we’ve boughten some cereal. After not buying any for a few months, it’s not a huge deal like it used to be. I’ve made the compromise that we can have 2 kinds in the house at once and they have to be organic and on sale. Giving these criteria means that we eat a lot less, which I’m okay with. Since buying the two boxes a few weeks ago, we’ve only had cereal twice.